There are different ways to decline. Got to share this serious issue that we have had encountered or might be ahead. Just have my Cosmo mag lately this weekend! Check this guys, this might help all genders!

Here are the ways:

• When favors dish in but you’re busy

“I can help you in fix those stuff but only after I’m done with my work here.”

• When invited but can’t go

“Ooops, I can’t have a cup of tea and go shopping on a Friday. I have set an appointment with a client for a close deal. Is there anything you need to tell me? I’m free at this moment.”

• When asked to baby sit a friend’s kids but don’t have time

“ You’re kids are cute and I like playing with them but I had promised my mom to take her to the Royal Spa.”

• When they thought you’re an event planner

“I want to be honest, I can’t organize for your party. My boss has given me lots of reports to work-on this week and I think I could not cater it.”

• When you’re badly needed but just can’t come

“I can’t be there today but I’m much available this weekend.”

• When you’re not yet hungry for lunch

“I just took my brunch a while ago. I’m still not hungry. Anyway, thanks for asking.”

• When you’re quite irritated

“I really can’t make it to accompany you. I just can’t this time.’”

These are possible cases in which we are squeeze in. Sometimes, saying “YES” might mean extremely disappointing than good.
“People may lose respect or take you for granted.”-COSMO, Dec. Issue

When saying NO, you have to be honest to free you from any guilt-feeling. Listening before butting out is important so you would know your move in a more polite way but firm. As much as possible, you have to keep your answers short. Don’t apologize like saying “sorry”, you also have a life to live!